September 10, 2023
“Many of us are afraid to follow our passions, to pursue what we want most because it means taking risks and even facing failure. But to pursue your passion with all your heart and soul is success in itself. The greatest failure is to have never really tried.” – Robyn Allen
This past week was a very fulfilling one for me as a Personal Success Coach, because I got to see two of my wonderful clients succeed BIG in their careers. Both women received something EVEN better than they had expected because both dared to follow their passions and believe they were worthy to receive the BEST.
I have told both their stories in past blogs, but this week brought some stunning, delightful updates which none of us could have foreseen. I wanted to share the latest twists to their stories with you because they hold important lessons for all of us who seek to manifest our Big Goals with greater speed and ease.
My first client’s story about a career change that resulted from a serious health challenge was first told in October 2022 (From Patient to Physician – Blog 450). She came to coaching because her high-paying, high-powered career was stressing her physically, mentally and emotionally. She needed to make a change but wasn’t clear on what she might do next. She has a lot of marketing experience and great people skills, but the only job offers she was getting from her online resume were in the same field she wanted to exit.
After using the mindset tools I taught her to overcame her fears and limiting beliefs, she began to get clarity that what she really loved was the field of health care, but she was unsure what specific capacity she could serve in. She knew she wasn’t up for going back to school to get a nursing or other degree in a whole new field. She had always wanted to help patients, especially elderly people, who were facing daunting challenges with the complexities of the health care system because of her own past experience helping her mother navigate the medical “maze” that comes with a cancer diagnosis. She wasn’t sure what direction she should take to start.
Then one day I received a mailing from a daily devotional I subscribe to which included an advertisement that caught my eye. It was from a home health care assistance company that helps patients (including seniors) live independently in their own homes by providing the medical and emotional support they need. They were looking for new staff members in various capacities, and even though I suspected the pay would be far below her current position, I thought it might be something my client could look into, as a place to start.
She was intrigued and ended up interviewing with a man who owned one of the franchise offices for the company that was located just a few miles from her home. She and the owner hit it off immediately. As they discussed her unique marketing skills, the owner came up with the idea of creating a position they hadn’t even advertised for — a new marketing position to help them grow faster through cultivating relationships with hospitals, nursing homes and other organizations that can refer new clients. Knowing his franchise operation was still too small to pay her what she was worth, the owner said he would propose to four other franchisees in the same county area that they might share my client’s marketing services for all of their locations.
There were a lot of details that would need to be worked out with this unique “shared” approach, and he told her it would take some time. He said, “I can’t promise anything” but he really wanted her, so he would try to put it together. Initially, that was fine with her because she had been dealing with a serious health challenge that came up unexpectedly. The one “bright spot” was that it required her to take an extended leave of absence from her current job to rest and recuperate at home. The owner was happy to wait until she was ready to work.
During her recuperation, she realized what a great weight had lifted from her by being away from her stressful job. She re-connected with her family, took better care of herself physically, had time to do more spiritual and personal development, and although her body was taking a long time to heal, she was truly thriving in so many ways.
Finally, after a far longer recuperation than she or her doctors had anticipated, she re-contacted the owner of the home health care franchise to see what the status was. He still hadn’t made much progress at bringing the other owners on board in a concrete way. They were open to the idea, but they still had not hammered out any of the details yet. Again, he asked her to be patient and he would “try his best” to get a job description and salary offer put together in the next few weeks.
She was understandably disappointed. This had seemed like her “dream job” – at least as an entry into the field where her heart told her she belonged. Yet, with months to put something together, this owner she liked and wanted to work with had proven that he was fairly overwhelmed with the day-to-day functions of his business and hadn’t made hiring her a priority. She had to get back to some kind of paid position, so she reluctantly agreed to return to her old stressful job, but only on a part-time basis while she sorted things out.
My client and I were both puzzled as to why God/The Universe had seemed to lead her directly to this new opportunity, and yet it now seemed to be unravelling. I reminded her to keep expecting The Best outcome, and to be patient while the Divine details took time to emerge. We both trusted that whatever was happening “behind the scenes” would surely end up being for her Highest Good.
Then, I got another “out of the blue” home health care advertisement online – this time from my own provider, Kaiser. It recommended a different franchise chain that also had offices throughout our local area. Something nudged me to forward it to my client, even though I didn’t know if she would be open to exploring this same niche again, given her disappointing first foray.
She surprised me by jumping right on it. She found an opening that seemed like a good fit for her in an office that was even closer to her home than the other franchise’s and uploaded her resume and a strong cover letter. She got an immediate call from the HR person and had several great interviews, including with the owner. It turned out that particular owner was a woman and all her staff were women. They all loved her and she loved them from the get-go.
In a little over one week, she went from applying to having the owner come to meet her during her lunch hour and offer her the job. My client was elated. The benefits, the training, the support were all better than what the first franchise owner could offer her. The only sticking point was salary, which was a little lower than she felt she deserved. She believed in herself and believed she had been Divinely guided to this position, so she countered with what she felt was truly fair.
The owner agreed to her proposed increased salary and bonus structure, sent her a written offer immediately, and my client was able to quickly give her two-week notice to her stressful old job. The old job’s HR person told her, “I know health care has always been where your heart is. We will really miss you, but I am so happy for you.”
As for the franchise owner at the first company, he ended up surprised and very sorry that he had foot-dragged too long and lost her. Still, he had gotten the bright marketing idea that his company needs to grow from his discussions with my client, so he benefitted as well. When he is truly ready to hire someone, my client believes the perfect candidate will appear for him, too.
Here are some useful take-aways for all of us from my client’s experience at manifesting a heartfelt, long-shot Big Goal:
- First and foremost, focus on what you WANT, not on what you don’t want. She knew the field she wanted to be in. So, even though she didn’t have any direct experience in it, she believed that the dream in her heart was purposeful and God/the Universe would find a way to help her fulfill it. She worked daily on building her BELIEF – in her Big Goal, in her Higher Power and in herself and her value.
- Secondly, when things don’t seem to be panning out, don’t give up. Stay patient and trust that there are forces working behind the scenes on your behalf and that everything will sort itself out in due time. Even if it’s not on OUR timetable, we must trust that the Divine Plan always unfolds at exactly the right time. When she was fully ready to go back to work, her REAL Dream Job appeared “out of the blue,” ready for HER.
- Finally, have the courage to ASK for what you truly believe you deserve. Even though my client very much wanted the position, she didn’t settle for the initial offer. She knew she could provide beyond-expectations value, and after their conversation, the owner believed her and happily agreed.
When faced with apparent failure and disappointment, if you will follow these principles as my client did, you too can watch God/The Universe work on your behalf to bring you something EVEN better than what you thought you wanted!
NEXT WEEK: In Part 2, I will tell you the jaw-dropping story of how my second client turned an apparent career tragedy into triumph for herself by following these same principles. Stay tuned!
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